Well, I don't know about Dr Shaw but one reason I am put off the "TLM" is because it's too effeminate. All that lace frippery, the cottas up to the servers' chins; one can well imagine the afore-service conversation in the sacristy, "now father," said the sacristan (a battle axe woman, of course), "which ugly, stiff tabard do you want to wear to-day?" "Oh, the one with flowers on it, dear," said the priest. If the TLM is so ostensibly masculine one wonders why it holds such an attraction for homosexuals! It reminds me of the first few minutes of this part of An Audience with Kenneth Williams.
"I won't have all this effeminacy and mincing about!" said the OC (which is code for a priest preaching against homosexuality).
A voice from the back, "oooh, get the madam!"